6. Do you have any general words of advice to people struggling through this out there?
I think some things have been really good coming out of this. Families are spending more time with each other - although that's good for some, and not for others! *laughs* I know I've been more intentional about calling my family on the way home, and checking in on them. We think we're invincible - we're used to having a problem, getting it fixed. When I was dealing with health care in Kenya, they don't necessarily expect to beat something. They're not used to having all the technology we have here. Ethics here would revolve around how long do you keep someone alive. Even now with COVID, because there's so much unknown - when and if he makes it, what will his quality of life be? But in Kenya, it was if there's a strike, do you show up? Something I've really taken away is preservation. My first time in Kenya, they handed me a baby. That sacred me to death! A little five or six year old, carried his baby brother down the mountain, wrapped in blankets. The baby was super lethargic, with eyes not opening. I didn't know what to do. The village doctor came once a month, and as it turns out, he had a big burn on his arm. Blistered burn from cooking over open fire. So wound care, like in the states, you have supplies everywhere. Until this pandemic, nurses haven't had to think about preserving supplies. But now we've wearing same N-95 mask a week or two weeks at a time. Normally you throw them away every time you go into a room. Pandemic levels the playing field. So with that baby, we need to clean it. I went and got some alcohol to pour the bottle over the wound The nurse there said 'No' and filled a capful and only used that capful. It sounds so silly, but they had one bottle of alcohol to last months, if not years. For a school with 900 students, one bottle of alcohol. For PPE (personal protection equipment), we saw during Ebola outbreak, people putting on trashbags. That's crazy. But now look at us. We're doing whatever we can to take care of these patients.
As far as what to tell people - if we could all just have a taste of humility. Put yourself in the shoes of someone else, like people with small businesses. Working every day, I don't know what it's like not to have paycheck. I know people want to get out, people that are stir crazy, but they don't know what it's like to watch someone die. Most of your business world has never held their hand, talked to the family, and done everything they've can to keep someone alive. Overall if we, as people, would just love each other a little better, and be patient with one another. Be safe about it.